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Bad times aren’t always bad, they help us grow mentally and spiritually. We get to know ourselves better, we get to understand who we are in a much deeper sense. Through the way we handle things, we discover our true self and as long as we keep in mind that we are where we are because of the choices we’ve made then that alone should be enough to keep us strong. If you caused it, you can overcome it. Just keep your faith in yourself strong, as long as you believe in yourself, nothing can bring you down.
We have to learn to be thankful for the hard times that we have because in the end, they will be the ones that we look back to most.. They will be what helps us realize things about ourselves and our lives. The hard times actually bring out the best in us and it is during these times we make the most progress. It pushes us to do things we might have never done before, it tests us and helps us deal or cope with things and then it allows us to apply what we’ve learned in the different aspects of life. We get more than we know from the hard times we go through but when we finally realize it, we’ll wonder why we ever felt like we couldn’t handle it.
Going through hard times helps us discover who our real friends are. We start seeing the people around us more clearly, we see it through their actions. We find out who is actually going to help us and who is going to just be there and tell us not to worry because things will be okay. Sometimes you find out that the person you least expected to help you will actually be the one who helps you the most. Going through a hard time helps you open your eyes and you start seeing the true nature of people more clearly.
Going through hard times restores our faith in God. We often only look for his help when we are going through hard times but thats because we realize that we do in fact need him. It may seem like a bad thing that we ONLY remember him during bad times but its better than not remembering him at all and now that you know you only remember him at times, maybe you can make it a point to thank him for everything each day. Even thank him for the bad times because he is only giving you a chance to prove to yourself what you are actually capable of handling.
Going through hard times makes us stronger. We may think that what we are going through is too tough for us to handle but lets be realistic…. We always come out alive, we always find a way to make things better, there is always a solution to every problem. You learn ways to cope and it helps you avoid making the same mistakes over again. Though it may seem like there’s no hope at times and we aren’t able to solve our problems right away… we know that its not impossible to deal with. The fact that we have to deal with it only means we can and we’re given a chance to learn something new and as a result, we get stronger and learn how to deal with similar problems we may encounter in the future.
Be thankful for the hard times you go through because they do a lot more for you than you realize.
I’d love to tell you that everything’s going to be okay. That’s what everyone told me, but it’s just not. You can stay here or you can go back; either way, it’s going to suck. But I figure, at least when it sucks, you know you’re alive. I guess what I’m trying to say is, it’s okay when everything sucks. It means you’re somewhere.
(via raindropsonredroses)
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(how can you not be a conan fan -iwasthesea? shameful!)
OMG. I AM DYING. that fucking jeggings face is so perfect. HAHA
OH YESS! hahaha
